Learn to respect the dead. Sometimes, the more you try to get rid of all things associated with them, the more they will come back for you. I am seriously pissed off with the way a certain someone handles my grandma, who passed away recently. Her actions seriously show how unfilial she can be. She has no respect for the dead. I seriously wonder how someone like her can sleep peacefully at night after doing all the bad things. I hope grandma gives her enough nightmares to scare the shit out of her every nights.
And I believe in retribution... your children are watching and that will be the exact same way they are gonna treat you when you die next time.